Thoughts on people who blame others for their own behavior

I am astounded by people who blame others for their own behavior... 

I am perplexed to see people accusing others of things they themselves do...

Especially when the actions they accuse others of, they, themselves commit in full view of everyone!

That's nonsense! 

Watch out—karma’s a bitch. If you throw a ball tied to a rubber band... it’ll come right back and hit you in the face.

These people are so full of themselves that they don't even realize what they're doing.
Jesus said, "Forgive them, for they know not what they do."

Unfortunately, it is a human phenomenon as old as relationships themselves: some people accuse others of behaviors that they themselves actually exhibit. The liar calls others manipulative. The unfaithful person becomes excessively jealous. The disrespectful person portrays themselves as a perpetual victim. Behind these repeated accusations often lies a well-known psychological mechanism: projection.

Projection involves attributing to others what we refuse to acknowledge in ourselves. It is an unconscious way of shifting our own guilt, fears, or flaws onto another person. Rather than facing an uncomfortable truth, some people prefer to blame the other person. This allows them to protect their self-image and avoid self-reflection.

It is important to understand that an excessive accusation sometimes says more about the accuser than about the person being accused. When someone constantly sees betrayal, manipulation, or malice everywhere, it may reflect their own inner thoughts, intentions, or behaviors. Of course, this does not mean that all criticism is a projection.

Jealousy can be the source of this projection, as mentioned earlier: when we are jealous of someone and have an inflated ego, we project our own flaws and actions onto that person.

Some of you have noticed this in the disclosure community, and the most regrettable thing is that it undermines what really matters: the message of unity, the information that is vital to humanity, and disclosure itself.

Be careful, friends, once again... Use your judgment, as Corina Pataki says: "A tree is known by its fruit... So look at the fruits."